Let me tell you a secret: wiggly kids make the BEST photos.
If you’ve ever stressed about your child not sitting still or smiling on command during a photo session, take a deep breath. You’re not alone. And more importantly, you don’t need to worry.
As a family photographer with over a decade of experience, I can tell you that some of my favorite images (and the ones parents treasure most!) are the ones where kids are being exactly who they are: wiggly, goofy, giggly, curious, sometimes even grumpy. These moments? They’re gold.
Embrace the Chaos (Yes, Really!)
The idea of a "perfect" family photo where everyone is smiling and looking straight at the camera is lovely, but it’s often not the most meaningful. Some of the best moments happen when you let go of that idea. Instead of forcing a pose, we let the session unfold naturally.
If your toddler wants to spin in circles, chase butterflies, or throw rocks into a creek—that’s what we do. I follow their lead and snap away. Often, it’s in those unguarded, unscripted moments that their true personality shines through. And that’s what we want to remember years from now.
Play, Don’t Pose
Think of our time together more like a playdate than a photoshoot. Sometimes little games or prompts help to get the kids moving and laughing. Whether it’s a round of Red Light, Green Light or a tickle session with mom and dad, the goal is simple: connection and joy.
You might not think a running toddler or a shy preschooler is "cooperating," but they are, just in their own way. And that’s okay! We work with it, not against it.
Let Go of "Perfect"
There’s no such thing as a perfect family or a perfect photo session. What matters is capturing the love, the connection, and the little in-between moments that tell your story. If your three-year-old is clinging to your leg while your baby is blowing raspberries, I promise you- that’s still beautiful.
Also, a quick tip: while it might be tempting to play a video or a song on your phone to calm your kiddo, this almost always backfires. Nine times out of ten, it just makes them want the phone—and then we end up with a mini screen battle instead of sweet family moments.
Trust the Process
I know it can feel chaotic in the moment. But from behind the lens, I see it all coming together. I see the way your toddler looks at you when they think no one is watching. I see the burst of joy as your child runs toward their sibling. I see YOU being an incredible parent in the middle of the beautiful mess.
And I promise when you look back at these images, you won’t see the chaos. You’ll see love.
A Note on Bribery (Yes, It Works!)
Let’s be honest…..a little well-timed bribery can go a long way. Whether it’s a promised cookie, a favorite treat, or a trip to the playground after the shoot, having a fun reward waiting at the end can help keep motivation high. Just make sure the incentive stays a post-session surprise—otherwise, you might be fielding constant "is it time yet?!" questions instead of snapping sweet smiles.
Ready to Capture Your Family Just As You Are?
If you’ve been putting off family photos because your child is too wild, too shy, or too unpredictable—let this be the sign that now is the perfect time.
Let’s celebrate who they are in this moment. Wiggles, chaos, giggles and all.